As a Mature Aged Gay there are many exciting products to try at your local adult shop. These sex toys for the mature gay may help your libido or sex life and help create a memorable sexual experience. Age is never a factor when it comes to sexual identity, pleasure or gratification. It plays a significant part in making adult stores appeal to every age. For too long sexual gratification centred on the ability to get, and maintain an erection and engage in penetrative anal sex.
In reality though, not every gay man engages in penetrative anal sex.
Intercrural or Non-Penetrative Sex
A point to keep in mind is that the enjoyment of partaking in anal sex is not an essential requirement for identifying as gay. Gay sex might be intercrural sex which is defined as being non-penetrative. This might involve one partner placing his penis between his male partner’s thighs, legs, or even hands whilst lubricated.
This practice is originally thought to be dated back to Ancient Greek sexual practices. Intercural sex is considered to be a safe form of sex. As unless there are cuts or abrasions on the legs, there is no bodily fluid exchanges taking place.
Sex Toys for the Mature Gay
Sex toys might also be a useful replacement for penetrative intercourse with a penis. Sex toys are used by both men and women of all ages and sexual orientations. The stigma of purchasing and owning a sex toy is breaking down. Quality of sex toys in recent years has greatly improved by using better materials such as silicone. There are also improved motors for a stronger vibration. Advanced ergonomic designs, and to be aesthetically and visually more appealing. We have evolved from the days when just plain hard plastic straight up vibrators.
Staff members at adult shops are also a wealth of knowledge
They help you discover the benefits of each product and walk you through how the specific products work. Consider them like a health care provider. It is best if you tell them exactly what you’re looking for, or in the absence that you’re not sure, what you’re specifically looking for the sexual aide to do.
There are a wide variety of men sex toys like penis pumps for mags that can assist with erectile dysfunction and the causes of erectile dysfunction. This can lead to a renewed enjoyment of sexual activity. Take advantage of all the sex toys designed especially for the Mature Age Gay community and you will not regret the decision.
Prostate Vibrators For Gay Men
The prostate is the male G spot and can result in very powerful and intense orgasms when stimulated. Stimulation of the prostate is recommended for prostate health. This can either be done through frequent ejaculation, or through the use of prostate stimulators.
There are a wide amount of prostate stimulators out there. It can be a confusing mine field for the new user. Basically what you’re looking for is something comfortable and which fits what you’re after. They’re actually very similar to G-Spot vibrators, though a prostate vibrator will usually have a flare on the base of it to prevent it from being absorbed.
For your first prostate massager, there’s no need to get something with all the bells and whistles on it. What you will be looking for is something relatively simple and cheap. If you’ve not had prostate stimulation before, you might not even be sure if you’re going to like it.
So start off with something simple. This is irrespective of your sexual role as not all penetrative sex will stimulate the prostate.
It’s Pretty Good For Solo Play!
A prostate vibrator is a male sex toy that is especially useful for solo play. We don’t necessarily recommend it for partner play to begin with and the reason is fairly simple.
When you have control of the prostate toy, you know which spots it’s hitting. You can directly manipulate that into the precise position that you’re after. For someone new to prostate play, if they’re controlling the device to use on someone else, they can’t feel where the toy is hitting except through your feedback. For this reason, we recommend if you’re engaging in prostate play through a partner, that your partner use his hands and fingers to begin with. This is so he can gain an intimate understanding of the precise spot that he’s meant to be hitting.
This may not happen overnight. It may take place over the course of sexual activity over many weeks.
You’re having trouble finding the prostate
Then try getting aroused by stroking your penis or having your partner stroke it for you. Arousal will make the prostate swell and become hard the closer that it is towards orgasm and ejaculation. During stimulation of the prostate through such a direct means, it is very important not to place too much pressure on the prostate. As this in turn can damage the urethral tubing of the male genitals.
You might also want to consider the idea of a vibrating prostate massager.
This can be good if localised stimulation isn’t working that well for you. Vibrations, and strength of the vibrations will provide pleasure through a broader area. It can also result in intense orgasmic pleasure purely through the vibrations!
Strap Ons For Gay Men
Male strap ons are a useful sex toy for people that cannot get erections or for people that suffer from premature ejaculation, or from inconsistent erections.
A male strap on is a kit which includes a harness which is meant to be worn around the waist or hips. It will have a dildo that can be attached to the harness. Male strap ons will often find that the device is hollow. It then is allowing them to wear it over their penis. Or that there will be a gap in the harness through which they can place their penis.
In this sense, they can then alternate between the dildo and their own penis however they see fit.
They can Also be Used To Make your Penis Size Bigger
Whilst strap ons can be used to help compensate for erectile problems, they can also be used by those wanting to use a bigger size penis than their partners. With a larger strap on than usual, some men enjoy the fantasy of pretending that they’re hung like porn stars. Or they might be doing it to please their partner who enjoys the use of larger anal toys.
Whatever the reason, strap ons are a fun complement to sexual activity. In comparison to other sex toys, some people might find that strap ons are a little more complex than other toys.
Features of Strapons
Dildos that they use are generally replaceable, and can be changed for other dildos. Some people might find this to be a little complex. In addition to putting on the strap on, adjusting all the straps to ensure a secure fit. Best piece of advice that we can give in this regard is to take your time. Sex isn’t always perfect, and it might help to maintain a sense of humour as opposed to stressing yourself out.
Strap on Tips
- Strap ons need lubrication. Dildo and the ass should be lubricated well before insertion. Material of the toy is not skin and it will probably have more resistance than skin. Coat with a quality silicone lubricant generously as silicone lubricant is especially useful for anal play.
- As with any anal play care needs to be taken. Especially if the wearer is using a bigger size than their own. It may seem obvious but it’s important to remember that the size is bigger and that extra care and preparation will need to occur before engaging in anal play. Some people will engage in anal play thinking that it’s their usual size which can cause discomfort for the recipient (bottom).
- Depending on your level of movement, you might need something to hold on to during thrusting to ensure balance.
- Just because you have a strap on doesn’t mean that you need to always be using it. It’s important to switch it up during sexual activities to ensure variety and intimacy.
Masturbation Sex Toys For Gay Men
There are masturbation toys designed especially for mature aged gays, or even their younger toyboys which may help prolong the sexual experience and bring a heighten sense of pleasure to the user.
Many community members also use masturbation devices when viewing pornography and pretend their toy is a real mouth or ass.
Features of Masturbation Toys
- These masturbation toys are made using soft skin like materials.
- Usually made out of Silla skin or a UR-3 material that feel incredibly soft to the touch.
- They’re also fantastic for holding body temperature and will quickly warm up during use.
- Or can be warmed up beforehand by soaking in warm water, to ensure a realistic feel.
- Various sizes that range from a small hand held size to a larger full size sleeve with plastic outer shell, to full sized masturbation and sex dolls.
- Majority are reusable.
- Very easy to clean for a new feeling for each use. To clean simply wash out with warm water and soap paying special attention to any grooves inside the toy. For an extra clean experience, we recommend using an anti-bacterial toy cleaner to safely remove bacteria that water alone may not remove.
- Masturbation toys that are made for the gay community usually have a mouth or ass entrance for insertion. Though you can get orifices with no gender, or with female orifices.
- Use of lubricant while using a masturbation toy is highly recommended. Lubrication helps provide a slippery surface inside the toy, removing friction that may cause irritation while using the toy.
A popular line of masturbation toys are from Fleshlight, and their gay brother line, Fleshjack. Fleshlight/fleshjack is the most sought after offering for sex toy for men. They are surprisingly simple to use.
How to Use a Fleshjack
A discreet tough plastic case is intended to resemble a common flashlight. But the hidden surprise is inside. Underneath the cap is a super soft life like skin material that closely feels in the same class as the real thing. On the top of the case there is a releasing valve to tighten or loosen the airflow inside the shaft. This is for a tighter or looser feel while using the Fleshjack.
- Just open the cap on the bottom of the Fleshjack.
- A helpful suggestion is to soak the Fleshjack sleeve in a sink filled with warm water for a warmer experience. Your Fleshjack sleeves are intended to hold warmth to amplify the life like experience. Following a couple of minutes the sleeves will be warm and will be prepared for use.
- Place the sleeve back inside the shell.
- Apply a light layer of water based lubricant to the entrance of the sleeve and yourself.
- Then continue to use your Fleshjack in a stroking manner until climax.
Fleshjack comes in a variety of sleeves
They are casted from porn stars real anatomy. Interiors are all unique to the star and everyone is different. Users can get sleeves from their favourite XXX video porn stars and that includes; Brent Corrigan, Brent Everett, Pierre Fitch, Austin Wilde, and models from Bel Ami, Next Door Studios and Cockyboys.
Trying new ways to use a Fleshjack is part of the fun of owning an adult toy.
While these toys are generally used as an extension of your own hand as you would normally masturbate, try putting the Fleshjack between your mattress and the bed for a doggie-style style experience. If you’re using a couch, place the Fleshjack between the couch and cushions to hold it in place.
Another fun experience is holding it on a counter top and use the Fleshjack standing up.